08 January 2010

Blue, Yellow, White, Nude, Whatever

Someone please explain to me how announcing the color of one's bra on Facebook is raising awareness of breast cancer. As someone who has had breast cancer, I actually find the activity offensive. And since last night, every time I log on to Facebook, I find another color posted as someone's status update, and get enraged all over again. Who comes up with these ideas?

On a personal note, I can't even where a normal bra yet. I wear white medical bras, which resemble sports bras, but clasp in the front. Very sexy. Very. Hopefully, my breasts will be able to handle wearing normal bras sometime soon, but I have no idea when. So even if I didn't have all of my pent-up anger towards cancer, I'd still feel left out right now because I can't wear a real bra. Thanks for reminding me, whoever you are who thought this bra color update was a good idea.

Maybe I am alone in my rage. In fact, I'm pretty sure that I am. I find most breast cancer awareness activities superficial. Why don't we discuss the causes of breast cancer and the effects of breast cancer on our persons and our society rather than wearing pink and feeling smug? Or posting the color of our bras? What the fuck does that do?

2 comments:

PixelFish said...

You're not alone:

http://toddlerplanet.wordpress.com/2010/01/08/in-the-name-of-awareness/

Unknown said...

That was exactly the thought I had about the stupid FB thing. I imagined that someone in your postion would not want to be reminded about regular bras, especially in a jokey way. I imagine there was a long time when you couldn't even wear a bra at all. The mem definitely didn't seem appropriate to me.